🌿 About Me
Hi, I’m Yan—38, a Virgo living in Beijing. I’m optimistic and confident, the kind of woman who knows how to enjoy life and keep moving forward. I’m also honest enough to admit I can be a little impatient sometimes 😄 (especially when something could be done faster or better).
I have a Master’s degree, and my life is a mix of ambition and artistry. I’m good at communication and organization, and I’m very practical when it comes to planning and finances. From the outside, I look strong and composed—but I’ll share something real: I can feel lonely easily, and I don’t like the feeling of emptiness. I want a relationship where two people feel close, emotionally safe, and truly connected.
My interests are a little “unexpected” in the best way. The piano is my favorite—when I play, it calms me down and heals my heart. I also enjoy golf with friends, and sometimes those evenings turn into business conversations where we exchange ideas and push each other to grow. I’m active too: long-distance running keeps my mind clear, and pole dancing gives me confidence and feminine power.
And then there’s my softer side: singing, calligraphy, painting, writing, carving, pottery/ceramics, flower arranging… I love creating beauty with my hands. If you’re the type who appreciates art, music, and effort, we’ll have plenty to talk about.
❤️ Looking For
I’m looking for a man who values emotional intimacy and a real “soul connection.” I don’t need constant big speeches—honestly, I prefer quiet romance: a look that says everything, a gentle touch, a sweet kiss that feels natural, not forced.
I want a partner who is warm and steady, someone who can hold me close on a clear night while we count the stars. A man who makes me feel that love can be calm and powerful at the same time—where your arms feel like home and your presence makes loneliness disappear.
🌟 Fun Fact
People think I’m always serious because I’m confident and organized… but give me a romantic night sky and I turn into a playful girl who will tease you while pretending I’m “just counting stars” 😄